Hello martamiriam,
I just wanted to send you a welcome to the NeuroTalk Support Groups.
Your situation sounds very complicated and I'm very sorry about that.
Just so you know, the forum that you have posted on is sometimes fairly quiet but there is a link to our sister site at the top of the page if you ever need that.
take care there.
Edited to add: There may be something helpful in the
Useful Websites section as well for you.
I am sorry I forgot to put the link but I see Jo*Mar has done that now.