JoClay: I beleive it is worse for the caregiver. I am sure your heart breaks for your husband, The caregiver notices the side looks and stares - probably more so than the person with PD. Not only is your husband cheated but also you are cheated. He has to accept the makeup of his body, You don't have to do anything if you so choose, but you do try to take some of the burden off him. Voluntary giving is much higher a virtue than the forced nature of your husband's PD. I feel for you. I feel for my husband.

Thelma - I can always use a friend.

Ann