Oh, Roz...

I'm sorry to hear that you have to deal with this now.. I hope that your son is close so you have the support that you deserve..
You need to get what is owed to you.. Medical cost are very high and with your medical history money is Big.. Plus, what is yours is yours and you need to be taken care of... You are in my Prayers.. I do hope in the long run it will all work out for you and things can come togather..

Big Gentle Hugs
Dawn