Oh Roz
I am sorry to hear this. What happened to...for better for worse. I guess he forgot those vows. I think he is being selfish and I am a workaholic so i can judge him on that front.
Do not compromise what you are entitled to for this marriage just to make it easy. Otherwise he is getting off easy.
Grrrrrrrrr this just makes me mad and I just want to give him a piece of my mind.