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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Spokane Valley, Wa
Posts: 473
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Spokane Valley, Wa
Posts: 473
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I'm not sure whether to give you my condolences, or my congratulations, to be honest. I, too, lost a husband over my RSD...at least that's what he said. We hadn't been happy for several years, that's for sure. That "for better or worse" part of the ceremony I think he totally ignored.
But I was happier alone than with him, for sure. There was much more peace in my life, and plenty less stress. That can only be GOOD for us, right?
And as soon as I totally gave up on the idea of love, I mean truly quit, it came storming back into my life! Michael and I have been together for almost eight years now (will be eight on the 18th of this month  )
He signed up for it, as they say, lol! We both had major health issues, me the rsd, him the aids and HepC. Now, of course, I have aids as well. But we truly DID go into this relationship with our eyes wide open, and it has been the best of my entire life. He's everything to me, and I to him.
So relax and take a deep breath. Give yourself time to come to terms with this, and you will. You never know what God has in store for you next.
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There are only two types of people in this world... those who bring you peace and those who don't.
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