Aspen,

Welcome to NeuroTalk.

It would help if you told us a little more about yourself and your injuries. It sounds like you were injured before you were 15. Did you finish high school ?

St Louis has 2 medical schools. You may be able to get some help at one as an intern group project. Both you and your mother could benefit from some help. It is possible to learn skills for controlling anger, even when there are underlying issues. Your city or county mental health departments may be able to help you both.