Hi Pat,
I posted a reply on your New Member Thread, but see you have expanded a little on the state of your mood. It is very good that you are seeing a Psychologist, but tell him you feel the need for more sessions.
As for your Daughter and best friend, I understand how difficult it is to own up to being depressed, and know the concern that others will see you differently. So start small, the members here are very knowledgeable about SCSs, I - and others - are available to talk to about your Depression so you become more comfortable talking about it to non-proffessionals. Eventually you may find it easier to talk to your loved ones.
Whatever you want to chat about, whether it is specific concern, support or even general chat, there is always someone here to listen.

Dave.