Aloha... I am new to this forum and so much to explore. I have been a elderly caregiver for over 20yrs and also cared for my dear Mother so I do understand first hand the big picture. Years ago and still do wanted to start a business... Caregivers for Caregivers. To give the caregiver a break, go to lunch with a friend, sit under a tree and relax, take a nap, get a pedicure, on and on... I once gave respite for a elderly man caring for his wife. 5mins after I got there he was flat on his bed snoring ... didn't move for 3hrs. When caring for my mom after bath, clean room, breakfast, sitting comfortable in her chair I went in the bathroom and at the sink I saw a woman who had not even combed her hair and it was time to start lunch so... ((( hugs )))