Thanks so much for the replies. It helps to know what is ok and not ok. Sara is healing. It has been a much harder road then either of us expected but she is putting one foot in front of the other. She actually has pretty good Rom in her arm and shoulder. Yesterday she tried to work on some homework and I think she overdid it writing because last night and today she started with nerve pain in her arm and fingers ( where it was numb before) personally I think it's a good sign but it hurts and sara is frustrated and worried . I will show her these posts and maybe it will help her feel better. Thanks again. Any other advise we will gladly take!
Terri