DorisB2,
Welcome to NeuroTalk. Your experience is not uncommon. I struggle to read long posts like yours, especially when they have long paragraphs so I will give just a few starting thoughts.
Regarding work and such issues. I recommend you watch the 6 segment YouTube videos call "You Look Great" at
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9Xso...ature=youtu.be
Regarding legal and other issues, I suggest you check out
www.tbilaw.com and
www.subtlebraininjury.com. Attorney Gordon Johnson has some great information. Your attorney will learn from what he has learned and posted.