Hi Nash,
You mention at the start of your Post about a 'bad emotional trauma'. Then you have all this dumped on you.
This may sound like a stupid question, but 'How are you, mentally?' Have you managed to address this initial emotional trauma? Do you have the support you need at home/medically?
Far too many of us who suffer severe chronic pain also have Depression issues which make everything worse. If this is the case, know there is the beginnings of a Support structure here.

Dave.