Hey Roz,

I don't really know what to say other than well, if you go into cross dressing you are sorted!

I guess men find this whole RSD thing so hard to deal with because suddenly you aren't the housekeeper, personal diary, cook and general dogsbody. It sounds like peace and quiet and simple living would give you a chance to sort things out, but please do what Molly suggested so that you are protected from your husband doing stupid things. I know that from my parents - when they seperated Richard didn't want a divorce because it would have made him look bad, but because he had always kept everything in his name he was able to remortgage the house then sell it without any of us knowing, (whilst mum, Char and I lived in it) and he did the same with all his assets, he moved them all offshore so that when mum FINALLY lost it and divorced him he claimed there was nothing he could give her and even made her pay the court costs because all his assets were off shore and his girlfriend wasn't in the UK. We are still dealing with the fall out of that situation so I beg you to try and secure things so that the money is there. There are so many things that would make a huge difference to my quaility of life but he won't pay for any of it because if I wanted to be better I'd be fine.

So please please lodge that information with a lawyer/ court.

Oh and have something pink and frosty with an umbrella on me!! (and lots of alcohol)

Love ya babes

Frogga xxxxxxxxxxxxx