Welcome and I am sorry under the circumstance we all have to meet. I agree, having someone so young to look after must be an interesting challenge with CRPS...don't let others dictate how you should be 'playing' with her. I had a professor in college say some comforting words; I was worried that my child wasn't getting a real childhood because of having to play on a cement garden most of the time, he said, but she IS getting a childhood...made sense to me.
Also, when my ankle broke due to CRPS, I had to ask my ortho doc to not put me in a cast. At first he was very firm and ridged with me about being in a soft boot, that I wouldn't heal right because I wouldn't follow the proper directions of when I could actually walk...I told him to give me a chance and I followed his directions and my bone healed...I find it a challenge to both us and the doctors' especially if we don't have a relationship with them yet.
Keep us posted and keep up the fight.