To be honest, I do the bathroom(s) sink(s), tub and toilet(s).
I do 75% of the cooking, she does the baking
(cakes, breads, cookies, etc), the dishes (most of the time)
I put them away.
I do the vacuuming.
She cleans up the dog poop and the kitty-litter box.
I dig up the garden,
she grows the flowers and veggies.
We seem to divide things pretty equally.

I'm kinda short on hugs, she doesn't cry.
Neither of us really yell.
I kinda talk loud, and am boisterous, and have been mistaken for shouting.
I think we live civilized lives, and have for over 26 years.
I dunno what this Venus/Mars thing is about, but then, I've never
been into astrology.

We just ......... DO.