i do all the shopping, food and clothes, all the laundry, most of the dishes, half of the cooking, take care of the pool, pick up the dog poop, maintain the cars, and i like mysteries. Quite a bit of the "women's" domain there. At the same time all of the jobs i have had are/were considered mens jobs or macho type jobs. People on the individual level are so complex that they many times defy all classification.