Well I broke my toe doing rock work! LOL

I have noticed with time that my husband has become much more domestic.
This summer we will have been married 39yrs. He now even does some cooking.

We too divide tasks. I have become more decisive with time (although professionally I always was).

When my son was a baby and little, I did all the infant stuff. I make all the medical decisions, most of the food choices, and clothes picking. My husband hates to buy clothes, and I have to browbeat him somewhat to get that done.
So he has limited types of clothes because I won't nag him much. I'll finegle him into a Kohl's and BINGO-- gotcha! (best done during sales) He however deals with the bills mostly..since I get reactive about $$ sometimes.(he is calm about it).

Both of us are bookworms --he more than I-- but both of us read mysteries.
(He likes the more macho types). I suppose he is rather a "passive" sort of guy since his ego is not huge, and he is not bossy and does not tell me what to do unless I really need it! LOL He knows that I can take care of myself most of the time and he lets me. My husband loves pets, and our cats just love him (sometimes shamelessly). My guy is very considerate, and he even rescued me at the hospital Monday, where I got "stuck". The huge complex discontinued the shuttle unbenknowst to me, and I had to park in a structure far away from my Lab goal, so I called him up and he came and got me and took me to my car (I walked the 1 mile plus but couldn't make it back on a fasting requirement--he even brought me a Coke)..and didn't even berate me! That is true LOVE! LOL I call it Gray Haired LOVE!