Originally Posted by eva5667faliure

Gerry
you are absolutely correct
it is not the in you face
and don't you ever forget it

this is at a time i could have been selfish
and she wanted me there
i did it with nothing in return
and still listen to her
what is brought up
are situations that have occurred
in their adult

i am not speaking of the necessary
responsibilities of preventative
health care that's a given


some will call it enabling
i definitely rather not have any
of what i am going through happen
and it is
i have to learn how to say NO
and not let them hurt me
my child in her mid thirties
and she NEEDS her eyes checked
along with that eye wear
and nothing in return is
there does come a time when
taking from me has stopped
my eldest asked for help purchasing
christmas gifts with the promise of them
her to pay it off monthly
four computer tablets and a previous
balance hers was paying monthly payments
and her reason
did not like being asked how could she have left a mess
as she did using my apartment as a venue for her to have
her poetry features happen
and the response was go blank yourself
and has no intention to pay the dell account
all hers left for me to pay
is the first for her
so no i don't like having to remind them of their obligations
this is all present happenings
undeserving of it all
me