We fully understand the HUGE frustration, to put it mildly, that the medical field does to us...I have to agree with skrp01, burning bridges can come back to bite us...One of my doctors INSISTED I was making things up just to be seen; I was so that I stopped seeing her. When I had to have a check up, I had to eat crow and go back to see her...and she was still a snub...she was like, look what we found wrong....what WE?! However, she was willing and able to send my records to whom I needed....Had I given in to her 'ways' fully, I wouldn't be able to have the reviews done in time....
The exasperation you are experiencing is REAL; with that being said, maybe it can help you move forward.....