Hi Frogga,
Sorry, I haven't been on the board for awhile & I missed your post. I hope your situation is improving & you have someone other than your sister & her boyfriend to assist you. It's unfortunate that some family members can be so self-centered. I know because I have some but I'm fortunate in that I don't have to rely on them. Planning a trip sounds really nice. I've been thinking Hawaii for 6 months, even ordered checks that resembled Hawaii. No real plans but the thought makes me feel better. I hope & pray that your condition improves really soon.
Linmarie