So sorry to hear what's happening. I could say "been there, done that." But mine was when I was young and healthy. I know how difficult it is to try and just get a few things accomplished in a day with RSD, so going through a separation and possible divorce must be overwheming. I do agree with others in that you should get legal counsel asap. People can get really weird & greedy in a divorce. I know people who have taken out second mortgages and their soon to be exes didn't know. I don't know how but they did! People have cleared out bank accounts, safe deposit boxes, etc. And these appeared to be nice people!
Please take care of yourself.
Linmarie