I never thought of it as bad...just the opposite! I was always fascinated and was attracted to my husband because of the unique qualities he possess. He woo-ed my with a rubics cube. That tells you how old I am.

My son is fascinating as well. I wish I could get inside his head more so I know why he mimics (echopraxia) others. I don't know if he is doing it as a motor tic or for learning socially.

I would have to say the only thing I don't like is the tantrums. I could do without those. I got bit a few weeks ago and he took his rage out on me. I am his safety net and so I think that is why he lashes out. I am never mean to him or pushy. We have a great time together for the most part but when he has a bad day it comes out on me.

I am fascinated by his musical ability. He tells me not to sing because he knows how out of tune I am. I am his biggest fan.

He seems to like Math alot (he is only in first grade). My husband is great with numbers too.

Pros - the mind is fascinating and I think it is amazing how you can tap into parts that create genius.

Cons - Temper tantrums and agression and feeling like you are walking on eggshells all the time.

Obsessiveness can also have pros and cons

pros are you end up being great at something
cons - it will drive you nuts because you obsess over things and your mind won't stop