Canagirl,

I am glad your husband is supportive. My wife (we've been s couple 21 years this June) is amazing as well. My fatigue is horrendous of late and beyond working and some family time, I have no energy left.

She does 90% of the chores at this point. I try and do laundry, the occasional load of dishes and cooking the odd meal. We make it work, rather she does. I still have a lot of hard moments. I throw an "I'm sorry", every once in awhile.

One day during an extensive apology for the state of my health she stopped me, said "in sickness and in health" and went back about her business.

She is amazing. I'm aware of my good fortune.

I have been working on breathing steady when things kick up. It isn't world beating, but I think it could end up mildly effective.

My best,

Jon