Hello Sophie,
Welcome to the NeuroTalk Support Groups.

I'm sorry to read about the changes in your relationship with your spouse after their strokes. I hope you have friends and family that are supportive. I wonder too if you've ever been involved in any type of support organization for caregivers?

I just wanted to let you know that there are a couple of other forums here at NeuroTalk where you might also like to check or post.

Stroke Forum

Caregivers Support Forum