Glad to know I'm not alone, I get told all the time by an ADHD boyfriend that I need to do more, and that I shouldn't get upset when his kid (22) wants to use our house 4 nights a week to play table top games in our foyer and dinning room with his group of very loud and obnoxious friends till all hours of the morning. I sleep on couch because my boyfriend moves a lot in his sleep and grabs me, usually my right arm, and I can't sleep like that, so it is myself and my daughter who's bedroom is downstairs that get no sleep and have to deal with constant company....
I hope things get better for you quickly!!