Hi Joanna,
I was 28 when I crushed the vertebrae in my neck and my rapid spiral downhill started, although I had Anxiety, Depression and other spinal issues before that. It is not fair when you feel that you have been made old before your time.

Chronic pain does change you, and it does change those around you - few sufferers retain all their friends I'm afraid.

But you do learn to 'Cope'. You are still getting out to your son's playgroup, so make yourself feel good and make a real effort to look nice when you go. Avoid razors, try other hair removal systems - carefully to start with. Little things will make a big difference.

If Depression takes hold it rarely goes away on it's own. A few Therapy sessions, maybe something more medically will be needed. There are techniques to strengthen the mind and help deal with the daily drudge.

Wishing you reduced pain.

Dave.