Hi Maryoochi,
Don't be sad - we won't be mad at you - this is the place to come for support and to vent. You may not have found the info you've been looking for yet but keep posting and someone may turn up - even just someone like me who doesn't have diabetes (but is a potential candidate) which is why I bookmarked some of the research I've come across about diabetes. (and I hate trying to find things again later on the internet when I can only remember a fraction of what they're about!)
Re your post about
: "I had only been a diabetic for 8 years when I 1st developed symptoms (that would have been some time in 2011) & now I know that most diabetics don't have problems with PN until way after 10 or more years of having diabetes."
I recently came across an article about there being a group of 'pre-clinical diabetes' people who have PN long before they show any clinical diabetes symptoms so PN may be a warning sign for some - in your case you could consider your PN as having arrived later than some. Not that I mean to diminish the agony of your PN - I walk in your shoes - have PN symptoms but no definite diagnosis - probably autoimmune caused by Addison's Disease.
Anyway here's a few of links that might be useful. If nothing else the woman in the video in the third link is so peppy she might at least make you think more positively. If I come across any more links I'll post here.
http://www.phlaunt.com/diabetes/14046782.php
http://www.phlaunt.com/diabetes/16422495.php
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=da1vvigy5tQ
Take care and please let us know how you're doing.
cheers bluesfan