Dear Eva,

Sorry I have been away for a couple of days - family operations messed me up.


Your Daughter will learn soon enough that your Ex considers her an inconvenience if he cannot even pick her up from Counselling. The novelty will wear thin when the attitude starts - and it will, behaviour so ingrained does not change overnight.

As to her 'hook ups', deceitful and possibly dangerous if she met him online. You can only hope she knows him in the Real World, through a friend? I do not know what to suggest except warn your Ex in no uncertain terms, make him understand the seriousness of the situation and the potential consequences.

Little Eva's Mother moving in? From now on make sure all your decisions are in your best interests. You do not need anything negative in your life.

Dave.