suggestions from rh, i like 1,2,and 3.

call me weird, you wouldn't be the first, but, i like the argueing. although it does detract from a good and productive thread and it is a real shame when people insist on having their feeling hurt, there is an authenticity to it. any community i have been involved with has had these very same issues, it is how we grow as a group.

i am not a great organizer but a structure in this forum to provide a way for a thread to stay on track would be worth trying. i like the sub thread where the originator could somehow just include the posts that are pertinant