((Lothlorien)) welcome. My long ago ex-husband was a Tolkien fan. I remember as we drove through some of the mountains of Germany, he claimed they were the basis of the locale. But he was out of his mind, as I finally figured out.

This is a wonderful forum. You'll make good friends and I hope it also helps you find peace of mind. And I'm sure we have SI'ers in our group. I hope they get to meet you.