I know who to give info to and who not too. I've opened my mouth and regretted it with a loved one...but my older lady friends, can laugh things off....we do what we do anyway.

Life is short, walking on eggs all the time isn't good either...pick and choose.

Yesterday at bridge and I'm older, 77 soon, I like to let go and do crazy kinda things...even though I won't go in the ground when I die, I wouldn't want my tombstone to read: "she obeyed all the rules" ... breaking some rules is not the end of the world. I had fun at bridge yesterday and made some wild choices...it's only a card game...we can look at life that way too: it's a game. Laugh and make others laugh. I got some good laughs from my bridge friends yesterday..laughter is a good gift.

PS: I follow all the rules that are important that need to be followed and not broken, believe me. Parking tickets in our city cost over $62...