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Originally Posted by Mari View Post
http://www.buzzfeed.com/erinlarosa/p...and#.nuYwaoG0M

27 Things that only Introverts Understand

>7 Having visitors stay with you is a nightmare, because it means you have to be on at ALL TIMES.

>17 When you have an awesome night out, but have to deal with feeling exhausted for days after the fact.


Mari
Yup. Especially the second. Sometimes it still takes me by surprise, even though I know to expect it by now. I even try to space out my social things, in order to accomodate "recovery time".

In the case of the first, I have managed by
1) Not having many visitors stay.
2) Typically having only very close friends stay, and not for long.
3) Sitting on the floor in the dark and telling visitor I was "not up to anything today". ("Dude. Your host is out to lunch. Go grab a sandwich in the kitchen and STFU.")
4) Having meltdowns when challenged on choice of (in)activity.
5) Taking naps at annoying times.
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