Well, that's sorted. The stitches did hold something somewhere because what I only suspected yesterday - that the hole is open is certain now - like on the first day.
I'm beyond desperate. RELIGIOUSLY followed all advice, didn't even eat only liquids, no sneezing, no blowing the nose, talking or bending.

Now liquid and air goes again and the pulling is gone. Appears like something was stitched somewhere and without the sutures it broke lose.

question. Can the tissue that was used to cover the hold prevent it from closing on its own? I can not have another operation now - I have an appointment a month from now.
Is there any chance at all for it to heal on its own now? Any?

There is no infection, no pain.
I scared what's next.

Thank you.