Very wise words MrsD.

I need to forward that to my daughter. Age 20, in love, and I'm wondering "oh Dear Lord, what happened?" She has fallen in love, so best to let it take it's course.

Meanwhile I just need to avoid pounding my head against a wall. Gives me a headache, and doesn't do anything to improve the wall.

My wife just thinks I'm too Polly Anna in nature, always the optimist, but have to admit.... Boyfriend gets tossed out by Dad. Moves in with Mom (divorce parents) and she tosses him out after a month. Doesn't seem to be able to hold down a job due to "everyone else is a idiot". Yet my daughter feels sorry for him, so he is moved in with her. Deep breath.... deep breath...Meanwhile she is talking with her friends, as they don't seem to like the new guy...

For Bright Eyes.... best is to keep the fellow as a friend (if possible) and just realize he isn't the one....