[QUOTE=kicker;1155299]As an "old-bie" I appreciate your post Starznight. My husband likes to say as a joke to me "IF you were really trying you'd get over this thing."

Even though I've has PPMS for 20 years, my husband
still complains that I have no idea if I had continued the ABC shots after taking Copaxone daily shots for about a year, followed by seven (7!) more years of Betaseron shots every other day, all the while the MS progressed and progressed.

Even though NOW tbey say the shots never did anything for PPMS, and I've shown him proof, I know he still thinks I stopped the shots for no reason and maybe I might not be so bad off if I'd continued. He doesn't say it as often, but he brings it up often enough.

So do I think your hubby really believes you just haven't "tried" ? You bet I do. I bet In his mind he knows he's not just kidding.

And you know you've "tried" all you could.

I've dealt with it (hubby's unwillingness to accept the truth for decades. Neither hubby has accepted things for what they are. (sigh...)

Msbluis