I'm PPMS and will be 60 soon, DXed 2002. Between the not being the 23 year old girl he married, growing red hair out gray and no longer being size 2 AND being in a chair with MS sometimes DH seems dazed and sucker-punched! Life is not a Life-Time movie. Getting older is tough enough without throwing a debilitating disease in the mix. Fertility treatment (I'm so old that was still in the days health insurance covered it until they decided, like plastic surgery, this should elective otherwise we could never have afforded it!) so we have twins who's college costs means we have debt for awhile.

Like Lilly Tomlin's character used to say "It's always something".