Hi there! It sounds like you are stressed to the max! I moved a few months back and remember feeling very overwhelmed and frustrated because i couldnt do much by myself. Thank goodness i had family members to unpack. I still have lots to do but at least the house is tolerable (plz dont peek in my garage or basement haha) As for cymbalta, i've been on it 2 yrs now. I havent gained weight from it. It helps my anxiety and depression but not nerve pains. I stillget zingers down into my feet and searing pain in my legs when i lay down. I cant take lyrica, neurontin, gabapentin. I remember they caused weight gain, bloating, n yes, hair loss. So im on the do nothing path right now until ican afford to get into a pain mgt dr to see what's new. But just to let you know cymbalta helped my psyche but really not my rsd pains.