Oh, yes, the new house!
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Very exciting!
Quite a project you have undertaken. Well done, I am sure!
I am glad you have had a good day!
I feel it's a valuable skill to be able to set certain matters aside and attend to other matters, to live life. This gives us a break from certain stressful situations. Seems reasonable to me.
Yes, it's hard to ignore irrational behaviors and behaviors which hurt us.
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However, there are circumstances when it's more sane to find a way to separate ourselves from the stress and have some enjoyment in our day/eves.
My first fiancé had become very abusive after we had become engaged, long ago. It was a huge change in him. It was a nightmare. He would not go to couples counseling, etc. He was very belligerent. It was shocking. I had eventually found out he had become addicted to cocaine. He was trying to hide this from me. He'd refused to give it up. I broke off the engagement.
I remember the obsessing, trying to make sense out of irrational behaviors, trying to get over the deep hurt, etc.
I am no expert; yet, I feel you are on a healthy track.
I hope you have an equally pleasant evening!
DejaVu