I really hope its okay, I feel so bad for you with your Dad's attitude, it's got to be totally frustratint Mari. It shouldn't have to be that way, but let's face it, you nailed it in the next to last paragraph, he's a control freak. People like that expect everyone else around them to just up and listen to their drill sargent rules and expectations of any given situation. And reality is that that is unfair and unreasonable of that person to do to their loved ones.

I am so sorry that you're having to deal with this after all that you're going through with the lack of sleep and everything. Hang in there, even this too shall pass.