Hi SDfencer,

It's very tough to adjust to a disability.
It's a truly major life adjustment.

Are you able to see a therapist for support?

I am encouraging you to consider getting a dog if you'd benefit from having a dog. I understand you feel the community rules for dogs make it difficult for you to have a dog; however, communities often make accommodations for people with disabilities. In some states, the laws make it possible to have a companion animal and necessary accommodations for the animal.

I am encouraging you to contact your state's office for Independent Living to ask more about this, and/or to gain a caseworker, if possible.

If the office for Independent Living cannot answer your questions and/or you need more assistance, please contact Legal Aid, if your state has Legal Aid programs available. Many Legal Aid offices have special funds to assist people with disabilities, at no cost.

If you are disabled and would benefit from having a dog, I believe there is a very good chance you can have a dog. Please check with these agencies to understand the pertinent laws in your state of residence.

I hope you will find a helping hand!

Warmly,
DejaVu