Thank you everyone for your suggestions. I am so glad I have you all who understand!

I am on a waiting list for our local brain injury services, although it has been a year and they are saying 3-6 months more. It really sucks that no money means no help, we are the ones who need it the most.

I am going to look into the grocery delivery, even if it costs a little more, as you say it is one less thing for me to worry about.

As far as his work, unfortunately carpooling is not and option, he is a territory sales guy so his job is to drive for a living.