Stages of grief - it applies to illness & injuries as well as death of loved ones.
some say 5 stages and some say 7 stages...

[The five stages do not necessarily occur in any specific order. We often move between stages before achieving a more peaceful acceptance ]
http://psychcentral.com/lib/the-5-st...oss-and-grief/

http://www.recover-from-grief.com/7-...-of-grief.html