I agree with what others have suggested. Maybe its time to take stock of your life and decide what makes you happy and what changes you can make to make your life better. Sounds like youre often a 'single' parent which is very hard on any healthy person. Good news is your daughter probably still eats simple foods like mac n cheeze, frozen chicken nuggets, easy things to whip up. I rely on the crockpot to make a real meal a couple times a week. Then its pizza, chinese, and leftovers. We moved to a smaller home since my kids will be moving to college soon and with the small house, its much easier to keep it clean. Wegot rid of alot of clutter too. Even though upkeep is less, we tackle it as a team. If i clean bathrooms, kids vacuum n mop. I cook, they wash dishes. I do laundry if they bring it to the laundry room. Then they take their own clothes back to their rooms n put them away. Really, i just cant do it all anymore. Your fiance should understand this and remember the vows... for better or worse, in sicknessand in health. Hopefully he understands that you need his support and its not like a broken armthat will get better soon. Unfortunately, you need to carve out a new life, a new norm, that enables you to be happier than you are right now. Otherwise the pattern you're in will keep pulling you down. Anytime you want to vent, just give us a hollar. We certainly understand.