I'm sorry about your Grandma Flippin'... crazy stress going to a funeral, and on top of a TOS flare? Oh Man. You deserve a rant for sure! More room out than in.

I HATE getting those looks from people. But some days I could give a crap 'cause it hurts so bad. So now I'm starting to just not give a crap even on the better days. If we don't go easy on ourselves it just makes it worse. You are so fortunate to have a spouse who loves you and stands by you.

I hope a better day is ahead for you soon.
Anne