Just wanted to say goodnight Debi ( or is it good morning? )
I can't to get sleep either.

Thanks for the updates on your Mother.
I don't know how you can lift her wheelchair in and out of the car.
Like you and your Mom, my Mother and I don't like using it but, it is a necessity for both of us.
She used to fight me using it but she would tire after walking 15 paces and need to sit.

Debi...do you think you could delegate some tasks to the kids or other family or friends? to take the load off you? You seem to have the loveliest family and friends...I know people who care are looking for ways to help at a time like this and some my be very glad to step up.

I would like to mention, if you can, maybe your husbands insurance could provide a Medicare Gap type plan? I got a gap plan for the first time myself this year and it has been incredibly helpful. I have has some serious / expensive health issues and I have not paid a dime beyond what my deductible at the beginning of the year. Just a thought.

A big hug and hopefully a visit from the sand man.

XOXOXO
D.