Hi Melody,

I do apologize. I really was talking JUST about the temperature. I had no idea Alan was such an inconsiderate person to you. I guess I got the impression that he was usually a really super duper fellow from the way you have spoken of him. About his "fan club" with the girls in your circle of friends, etc. About how you DO take care of his every desire and need. I thought it was a mutual thing. Sorry to hear that you are so under appreciated.

If he is using his health (neuropathy, etc.) as an excuse for his behavior, that won't cut it as you have your own health issues. I know of your diabetes and your arthritis and there is probably much of which I am unaware.

I was just commenting on the irritability I get when I am "hot". Guess, there is more to it with Alan than just temperature related irritability.

You just reinforced my happiness with living alone.