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Old 09-12-2015, 10:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Mark in Idaho View Post
You may be spending too much time reading too many threads. What posts mentioned permanent deficits ? I have not seen any lately.

I have stated many times. Brain injuries are permanent. But, improvements are attainable for all but a very few. Rehab experience shows that the best recoveries happen when the patient accepts their current state of injury and symptoms and uses that as a foundation to move forward. When we constantly look at things as "I can't do that." versus, "I'll do that activity a different way," we get stuck in negativity. Moving forward despite our struggles allows us to rebuild our lives and reinvent our lives.

I have lived with horrible PCS limitations but can't understand why so many dive for a dark cave every time they encounter a struggle. I've had to leave stores, restaurants, church functions, etc. Over time, I have learned how to moderate these events so I can attend most of them.

Our lives changed when we got injured. But, we still can live a full life.

What have you tried to do to reinvent your life so you can move forward with the struggles you have ?
What Mark is saying is so, so true: I didn't really start to recover, until I stopped denying my injury. Once I stopped thinking I'd somehow just get back to 100%, I started working on the adaptations that have made my daily life so much better.

Yeah, I am still disabled and, barring a medical miracle, always will be. However, when I compare my initial prognosis to where I am now, I think, "WOW!"

If I can do it, anybody can.
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