I hope all will go well with this weekend; but please, should you begin to feel you cannot handle it, I'm sure everyone will understand. Iit's good that you're holding off telling your Mom about this upcoming weekend.
Debi,
Not sure you realize how much you have really accomplished in so short of time. Thankfully you have a great family as well. All of you are in this together; they are grieving too. Spending time doing errands and just being there with you is healing for them as well.
Your daughter is quite wise. I'm glad she insisted you come down to eat. Good for you for obliging her request.
As always, you and your family are in my prayers.
Gerry