Oh Mrs. Bear, I am so sorry that Wes is suffering so badly right now. I wish I had more help then just suggesting he try Avitan/Lorazepam which is what I take for anxiety that really helps me. I hope things get easier for him it's so hard when you have to face such a dramatic change as a breakup is.

I agree with bizi though, he ought to call his T and see about getting an appt asap. When someone we love is in pain it hurts us too.