I'm a survivor
I could not follow conversation or questions, could not tolerate noise and visual stimulus, my memory was very badly affected and I struggled following processes like making a cup of tea.
Fast forward ten + years
I'm working part time.
I still get fatigue and do not no my limits.
I can do phone calls and watch TV and go out for a meal bug I know I need to factor in a rest period.
My memory is still affected but I manage it more effectively and use reminders, calendars and planners.
Forward planning still needs work, but I recognise this now.
I don't identify myself by rushing in saying I used to be...... I have accepted my TBI and I work with what I have on each day.
I learn to say no.
I can accept help now instead of insisting I do everything to prove I can still do it.
I can bang my head on balls, furniture, toys etc by accident and not panic!
I think after the initial anger and frustration which lasted years, I am now more relaxed but if something annoys me or someone says something I can't hold back and what ever is on my mind falls out of my mouth!
I can come on this site and offer support