Mrs Bear, I hear your heart feltaching and thoughts, I can feel everyone and have to wish there were something I could say or offer in support that was the "thing" that helped and resolved it all.

does Wes have other support system as tough as youi for him?
IS there a councilor that is dedicated to him. Maybe the relationship was not healthy forhim but he clung to it. My son had so much depression and still fights sadness over being a lone and he is diagx with health problems. But it tore me apart to hear his pain and heart ache over break ups.

But, a lot of it was the person he was with has problems that became his too. It was not healthy. instead of just dealing with his own physicl health issues he had to deal with a personal issues the girl had too.

The crisis is going to take a lot out of you, but it will calm down, it will be a challange to get your sleep, slow your mind, and be there for support too, so take care of yourself.

My prayers are with you, a sisterly hug and wish there was a quick answer,
A shower or prayers for Wes to feel love andhope are on the way!
Di